Cyber Community in the Valley of the Shadow of Death

Abstract This article provides an examination of the communicative needs and practices of those who have survived the loss of a loved one to suicide. Based on a study of a face-to-face support group for parents of children lost to suicide, and over 10,000 e-mails from a number of online support groups for survivors of the loss of a loved one to suicide, this article discusses intense communicative relations, exclusion from the general society, self-accrediting of experts in grief, reconstruction of identity to include the loss, ownership of the suicide, and rebuilding community.