Life and meaning

What sense could it make to describe your life as 'unlivable'? What is it not only to be alive but to have a life that you live or lead? I answer by developing a social understanding of how we pursue meaning in life. True to other uses of 'meaning,' I propose, meaning in a life is communicative. If you experience your life as 'unlivable,' recovery can lie in this communicative dynamic: you regain the experience of leading your life by letting others remind you of meanings you've communicated to them in leading it. My argument works from a parallel between two dimensions in which you project an investment – a care, concern, love, or the like – when you form an intention or plan. Intrapersonally, you project your investment as communicatively intelligible to your own future self at 'plan's end.' Interpersonally, you project it as communicatively intelligible to others who might come to love this thing that you love simply because you love it, as an expression of love for you. The normativity of meaning in your life puts rational pressure on you not only to abandon investments that you cannot communicate but to experience the meaning in investments that you retain.