Mothers’ Representations of Relationships with their Children: Relations with Parenting Behavior, Mother Characteristics, and Child Disability Status

Representational models of mother‐child relationships were assessed through interview for 112 mothers of children ages 14 to 52 months. Fifty‐eight (51.8%) children had a diagnosis of cerebral palsy, 19 (17%) were diagnosed with epilepsy, while the remaining 35 (31.3%) had no diagnosis. Relations were examined between dimensions of representations (compliance, achievement, secure base, enmeshment, worry, pain) and maternal age, education and stress; diagnostic group and child developmental status; and mother’s behavior with the child in a problem‐solving task. Mothers for whom boundary violations were represented were also less focused with child achievement and experienced more worry and pain in the relationship. More severe disability status was associated with less compliance and more pain in representations. Longer time since diagnosis was positively correlated with painful representations. Representations were unrelated to child gender, child age, maternal education or age, or parenting stress. With educational level controlled, mothers’ support for the child and positive affect in a problem‐solving task were negatively related to representations of worry about the child’s future. Boundary concerns were predictive of mothers’ pressuring behavior in the problem‐solving task. Findings suggest representations are related to caregiving behavior apart from other maternal characteristics, and that mothers’ representations reflect variability in their children.