Partial order on involutive permutations and double Schubert cells

As shown by Melnikov, the orbits of a Borel subgroup acting by conjugation on upper-triangular matrices with square zero are indexed by involutions in the symmetric group. The inclusion relation among the orbit closures defines a partial order on involutions. We observe that the same order on involutive permutations also arises while describing the inclusion order on Formula: see text-orbit closures in the direct product of two Grassmannians. We establish a geometric relation between these two settings.