What can psychoanalysis learn from Sufism?

Abstract This paper critically examines psychoanalysis—particularly ego psychology—by contrasting it with Sufism's approach to the psyche. Drawing on the insights of the Sufi teacher and psychiatrist Javād Nurbakhsh, alongside classical Sufi literature, it argues that the Sufi perspective on the psyche provides insights that challenge the paradigms of ego‐based approaches such as ego psychology. In this context, the topics of love and narcissism are explored as prime examples that emphasise a fundamental difference between the Sufi and psychoanalytic models: While psychoanalysis tends to interpret love through the lens of ego‐driven and self‐referential narcissism, Sufism regards love as a state that overcomes the ego. Without rejecting the notion of love as a self‐referential phenomenon, this paper reframes the concept of ‘self‐referentiality’, proposing an alternative understanding of it as an egoless state . The aim is to bring to light the advantages of approaches that go beyond ego‐centered models of the psyche. Furthermore, the therapeutic implications of the Sufi approach are also explored, particularly regarding the Sufi emphasis on the ‘annihilation of the ego’ as a form of healing.