Estrangement is a systems issue

Abstract This article examines the breakdown of relationships between adult children and their parent(s) through a family systems approach. Estrangement arises from complex interactions, intergenerational patterns, unmet needs, unresolved conflicts, individualism, and external influences. The article emphasizes how professional interventions can strengthen family ties and support healthier boundaries and dialogue rather than intensifying family divides. This perspective challenges traditional fault‐based narratives and calls for innovative legal and therapeutic strategies that address the family system as a whole. Professionals and courts can either reinforce divisions or support healthier boundaries and dialogue. This system's perspective underscores the need for collaborative, interdisciplinary approaches that prioritize respect, healing, and long‐term family resilience.