Abstract: This is an autoethnographic essay about giving and receiving care with disability. This work explores the relationality of care, centering my experiences as a complexly disabled, white, queer, American man who is cared for by an extended network of Black American men of lower socioeconomic status. Care has been long theorized through the lens of "women's work" and labor, but my experiences of gendered care—receiving care from a community of men—allow me to explore the complexity of masculinity and caregiving. In this work, I move through topics, moods, and ways of being in an oppressive world. I use my daily routine from/in bed as a means to scaffold and explore questions of sexuality, religion, identity, justice, and just care.
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