This article introduces “self-hollowing” as an integrative framework for understanding severe early relational trauma through the convergence of André Green’s “dead mother” complex, James Herzog’s “father hunger,” and Heinz Kohut’s self-psychology. Self-hollowing describes a clinical configuration arising from the simultaneous failure of mirroring and idealizing selfobject functions when children encounter both an emotionally absent yet physically present mother and a structurally absent father who cannot provide affect regulation or internalized ideals. Through detailed case analysis spanning three generations, the article demonstrates how self-hollowing manifests as profound dissociation, inability to perceive bodily needs, compulsive creativity serving as manic defense, and repetitive relationship patterns seeking to reanimate the dead mother while harboring murderous rage toward the father. The patient’s creative cycles—from emptiness through frenzied productivity to anxious evaluation and back to void—reveal attempts to master primal scene trauma and construct missing symbolic paternal functions. The article argues for “phenomenological convergence” rather than theoretical synthesis, recognizing that different psychoanalytic traditions illuminate complementary aspects of this clinical reality. Treatment requires dual repair, providing both mirroring functions to establish self-cohesion and idealizing functions to build internal structure. The therapeutic process involves helping patients mourn what never existed, the emotionally present mother and the structuring father, enabling transition from the “murdered father” to the internalized “dead (symbolic) father” who establishes psychic law and boundaries, ultimately facilitating development of an integrated, vital self.
Xiaomeng Qiao (Tue,) studied this question.