Mowindahako is one of the important traditions in the customary marriage system of the Tolaki people in Southeast Sulawesi, Indonesia. This article discusses Mowindahako as a form of local wisdom that preserves the dignity of marriage, strengthens family relations, and maintains social harmony within the community. The study uses a descriptive qualitative approach based on cultural interpretation and literature-based reflection. The discussion shows that Mowindahako is not only a ceremonial stage in marriage, but also a social and moral system that contains values of responsibility, politeness, respect for women, respect for parents, deliberation, religious awareness, and cultural education. The role of the Tolea as the customary spokesperson is central because he represents the dignity of the groom’s family and communicates the customary intention through refined Tolaki language. In the context of modern social change, Mowindahako faces challenges from language shift, changing lifestyles, and declining interest among younger generations. Therefore, preservation efforts are needed through families, schools, cultural communities, traditional leaders, and local government. This article argues that Mowindahako remains relevant today because its values can guide society in building respectful, responsible, and harmonious family life.
Fajar Apri Ramadhan (Fri,) studied this question.