Predicting matchmaking success: The role of self-esteem and attachment in relationship formation

Diverse dating methods, including speed dating, online dating, and matchmaking services, provide distinct environments that impact partner selection and relationship development. This study examined the role of explicit and implicit self-esteem and explicit and implicit attachment style in predicting successful relationship formation among single adults (N = 183) enrolled in a matchmaking program with personal coaching. Baseline assessments included the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale, the Relationship Questionnaire, and Single-Target Implicit Association Tests (IATs) to measure both explicit and implicit self-esteem and attachment. Outcome success was defined as maintaining a relationship for at least three months. The results showed that explicit anxious attachment was a significant, negative predictor of relationship formation, whereas self-esteem (both explicit and implicit) and implicit attachment did not predict relationship formation. These findings suggest that addressing attachment anxiety may improve relationship formation success, with implications for both matchmaking professionals and their clients seeking long-term partnerships.