Lived Experiences of Tagakaulo Parents Practicing “Duway” (Polygamy) in Davao Occidental: A Phenomenological Study

Polygamy, locally known as “duway,” remains a culturally embedded practice among the Tagakaulo community in Davao Occidental, yet limited research has examined the lived experiences of families engaged in this system. Grounded in a phenomenological framework, this study aimed to explore the experiences, coping mechanisms, and insights of Tagakaulo parents practicing duway. Using purposive sampling, twelve participants from Demoloc, Malita, Davao Occidental were selected. Data were collected through in-depth interviews (n=7) and a focus group discussion (n=5), and analyzed using thematic analysis following Braun and Clarke’s framework. Findings revealed three major themes: (1) relational conflict, characterized by perceived inequalities in spousal treatment, attention, and financial support; (2) adaptive coping mechanisms, including negotiated agreements, compromise, and shared understanding among co-wives and the husband; and (3) evolving familial insights, emphasizing responsible parenthood, acceptance of circumstances, and the value of cooperation. These findings highlight the complex interpersonal dynamics within polygamous households and underscore the role of communication and shared responsibility in maintaining family cohesion. The study contributes to a nuanced understanding of culturally rooted marital practices and informs culturally sensitive interventions and policies.