The Relationship Between Closeness to Significant Others and Self-Esteem

One hundred and forty-three children (61 boys and 82 girls) between 8 and 12 years of age participated in a study which focused on closeness to significant others and its relationship with self-esteem. A closeness rating scale was developed to determine quantitatively how close children feel to their mother, father, two closest peers, and current teacher. Marsh’s (1990) eight general self-concept items from the Self-Description Questionnaire 1 (SDQ1), together with eight items from Burnett’s (1994) Self-Scale, were administered to the children, who ranged in age from 8 to 12 years, to measure their self-esteem. Closeness to mother was found to correlate most significantly with a child’s self-esteem, while closeness to teacher was related more strongly to self-esteem for girls than for boys.