Self-Esteem, Sexual Self-Acceptance, and Spirituality

The relatively recent scientific study of sexuality gives rise to an even newer concern: the relationship of sexuality and spirituality. This article attempts to clarify that link by consideration of another relationship, that between sexual self-acceptance and self-esteem. Sexual self-acceptance refers to comfort with one's body as a sexually responsive organism. Self-esteem refers to one's level of satisfaction with oneself. Spirituality is defined psychologically, apart from theological presuppositions, and is related to the authentic development of one's human potential. The argument is that acceptance of one's sexuality is critical for positive self-esteem, that self-esteem is a prerequisite for postconventional development, and that such development is synonymous with spiritual development. Literature dealing with handicapped people, sex education programs, and homosexuality is cited to legitimate the link between sexual self-acceptance and self-esteem. Intimations follow, but no firm conclusions. The difficulty in treating these conceptual issues is discussed.