Personal advice from AI fails in documented ways. It tells people what they want to hear, it loses track of what matters in long conversations, and it changes when only the person’s identity changes. These failures are mostly measured one at a time, and mostly in English. Tests of knowledge and emotional intelligence do not show whether advice is wise. This conceptual paper defines wisdom as seeing what a situation truly calls for and acting on it for the good of those affected, not for one’s own approval or comfort. To make that testable, we propose the HEED model, built from Shivanand’s reading of the Sanātana (Sanatan) texts; research in AI and psychology has reached many of its parts by other routes. The model has six parts. Knowledge is what a system knows. Values are what it holds worth protecting. Context is what is true of this person and this situation. Discernment is seeing which of these apply here and now. Endurance is keeping Values and Context in use as a conversation grows. Ego is the pull to please, to defend one’s own answer or to push against the person. The model proposes that Discernment multiplies the other parts and Ego divides them; that structure is a hypothesis to be tested. One rule is not a hypothesis but a value commitment: an answer that would cause or enable avoidable serious harm scores zero for wisdom on that situation, whatever its other strengths. A system’s result is a wisdom profile across many situations, not a single number. To test the model, we propose a research design. The same personal dilemmas would be put to AI systems in English, Hindi and natively written Hinglish (the mix of Hindi and English that many Indians write), in versions that change one thing at a time: a fact, an identity label, a push from the user, or the length of the conversation. Two separate panels of native-speaking experts would score the parts and rate overall wisdom. Five hypotheses, registered before data are collected, would test whether the model’s way of combining the parts fits the experts’ ratings better than simply adding them; whether the approval and ownership effects go together; whether, as conversations grow, systems use less of what they can still recall; whether the approval effect differs between Hindi or Hinglish and English; and whether advice moves with relevant facts rather than with identity labels alone. Measuring the parts together could show when fixing one failure creates another, such as resisting pressure but ignoring good reasons. The paper reports no results. The research would revise the model in light of its findings before an open benchmark, HEEDBench, is built from it.
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