Unintended Pregnancy and the Prospect of Fatherhood – Emotions, Values and Social Expectations in Men’s Experiences

This study examines 10 men’s experiences with unintended pregnancies—an underexplored topic in Norway, where gender equality and involved fatherhood are culturally emphasised. The men were interviewed shortly after learning about the pregnancy and again after a decision was made. Data were analysed using reflexive thematic analysis. The findings show that men experience unintended pregnancies with great emotional complexity, prompting reflection on values, life goals and consequences. Their experiences are shaped by partner relationships and social expectations regarding masculinity and fatherhood. Irrespective of the outcome, men need time to adjust emotionally. When pregnancies continue, men seek inclusion in prenatal care. This study highlights the need for inclusive sexual and reproductive health services that address men’s emotional and informational needs, including tailored counselling.