De-demonizing distance in mobile family lives: co-presence, care circulation and polymedia as vibrant matter

A growing literature is addressing the impact of information and communication technologies (ICTs) on transnational family relationships and the ability of family members to be co-present (emotionally ‘there’ for each other) across distance. In this article, I examine how relatively wealthy, middle-class Australian migrants use ICTs to achieve a sense of satisfactory distant co-presence with their transnational family members. I draw on the concepts of polymedia, vibrant matter and care circulation to explore how families are using ICTs in ways that are transforming forms of co-presence, as well as some of the pitfalls inherent in their use. I argue that these new forms of co-presence augment existing reciprocities and obligations and are facilitating ever-more dynamic and multifaceted relationships across distance.