The Stories and Strengths of Women Who Leave Battering Relationships

SUMMARY With the dearth of research on reasons battered women leave abusive relationships, the authors felt urgency in addressing this side of battered women's issues, which has traditionally focused on why women stay. The authors directly studied 10 battered women, who had been out of the relationship for at least six months. This qualitative study was composed of open-ended questions and a Self-Control Schedule to determine learned resourcefulness. Significant sources of strength, other than parental support, were found in the lives of these women, which included siblings, close friends, and in childhood, relationships with other adults. Ninety percent of the participants attribute their ability to cope with stress, as well as leave the abusive relationship, to having a sense of spirituality.