In Their Own Words

SUMMARY The impact of borderline personality disorder on family members of persons with BPD is articulated best by family members themselves. Despite an increase in research demonstrating more hopeful outcomes for the diagnosis, many mental health professionals remain unaware of recent advances in BPD treatments and therapies. This lack of awareness has dramatic consequences not only for patients, but for their families as well. This chapter describes the personal experiences of 12 family members with relatives with BPD. Expressed in one-hour semi-structured interviews, the family members' individual accounts centered on five key areas of their lives with their ill relative: (1) difficulty accessing current evidence-based knowledge about BPD and treatments; (2) a stigmatizing health care system; (3) prolonged hopelessness; (4) shrinking social networks; and (5) financial burdens. To improve the quality of services available to family members affected by BPD, social workers must educate themselves about the availability of professionals trained in BPD, BPD-specific treatment options, and BPD information resources.