Child-to-mother violence among Arab-Palestinian women: The motherhood trap, coping strategies, and barriers to support

Child-to-mother violence (CMV) is a largely under-recognized phenomenon, particularly among Arab-Palestinian women in Israel, where patriarchal norms and structural inequalities restrict access to services. This study explores the experiences of Arab-Palestinian mothers subjected to violence by adult children, focusing on how traditional maternal roles constrain them, their coping strategies and barriers to seeking assistance. A qualitative approach was employed, using in-depth semi-structured interviews with thirty-six Arab-Palestinian mothers who experienced CMV. Analysis revealed two main themes. First, mothers navigate tension between gendered expectations and structural oppression, balancing maternal responsibility with vulnerability to adult children’s aggression. Second, coping strategies and barriers to help-seeking include avoidance, shame, secrecy, reliance on family support, and formal services as a last resort. Findings underscore the critical importance of culturally sensitive and contextually tailored interventions, particularly in social work practice. Effective support requires professional training taking into account the socio-cultural and structural realities of Arab-Palestinian women, enabling mothers to access services safely and with dignity. Policy initiatives and community engagement are essential to reduce maternal burdens, prevent CMV, and foster safe, supportive family environments. Recognizing CMV as a gendered issue is crucial for developing interventions that enhance maternal and family well-being and ensure equitable access to resources.