Silken Rebellion Fish Fry: How to Make Your Unfresh Fish Rations Taste Rather Delicious

Silken Rebellion Fish FryHow to Make Your Unfresh Fish Rations Taste Rather Delicious Chantha Nguon (bio) and Kim Green (bio) Escaping the Khmer Rouge, Chantha Nguon's family moved to Saigon, where they lived as refugees. There, restoring flavor to the drab palate of their lives felt like a tiny act of rebellion. Lemongrass-fried fish lives on as a frequent dish, a simple and exquisite homage to Nguon's mother. When I was nine years old, in 1970, I fled Cambodia with my older brother and sisters. A military coup had ousted the prince and installed a general who right away began inciting violence against ethnic Vietnamese. Because my mother (in Khmer, I called her Mae) was from a Vietnamese family, she felt her children would be safer in wartime Saigon than in Cambodia, where an even darker ideological unrest was rising. Mae escaped later, with the Khmer Rouge at her heels. In Saigon, we lived as refugees—during the war, and after South Vietnam fell. Even before the communists marched in, we had very little money and could not eat the sumptuous meals my mother had prepared for us in her Battambang kitchen, back when our world still felt safe. But this new Saigon, brought to us by the North Vietnamese, was tasteless and colorless, devoid of the flavors I craved. Every month we received whatever combination of potatoes, cassava, rice, bug-infested bread, and substandard noodles the Party deemed fit. We sliced the cassava and dried it, then mixed everything together in one pot and choked down the gray, horrible mash. Eating it made us feel that we had devolved from human beings to pigs, content to devour slop from a trough. And the only fish we were able to buy was very small and very aged. We spent much of our time craving the ingredients we could not have and reminiscing about the delicious dishes from our old life. We cooked up schemes to make something tasty out of our dismal rations and the few decent items we managed to obtain by extralegal means. For us, restoring flavor to the drab palate of our lives felt like a tiny act of rebellion. [End Page 5] Click for larger view View full resolution Photo of fish by Marko Markovic / Unsplash.com Resistance under an authoritarian regime is a tricky undertaking. I learned the techniques from my mother. Her mastery—even before our exile—of carefully plotted disobedience disguised as dutifulness showed me how the task might be accomplished: the ways she had seemed to defer to her husband and mother-in-law when they were alive, while doing exactly as she pleased. In that time and place—when many men ruled their households like autocrats—wives, daughters, and mothers exercised a soft, silken power. We exerted our influence in the way of flowers: charm and guile could accomplish a great deal, we discovered. We need not smash the stinging bee when we could use him, instead, for our own purposes of pollination. Click for larger view View full resolution Following the rules of the new regime was essential to preserving the body intact. But small acts of resistance were essential to preserving the mind. And the quiet culinary uprisings Mae mounted in our Saigon kitchen showed me that we did not have to surrender entirely to a reign of dreary, gray blandness. One of my favorite make-do dishes from those years was my mother's lemongrass fried fish. Mae concocted a simple potion of diced garlic, lemongrass, chili, and salt—all ingredients even a poor refugee could obtain—and cast a spell upon the ancient, putrid fish we bought from our neighbor in the market. The salt toughened the soft flesh a bit, and the lemongrass hid the odor of too-old fish. Chopping the lemongrass was always my job. You have to cut off the root and the ends of the stalk, then remove the tough outer layers to get to the softer inner part. Slice the stalk in half lengthwise; with the flat side down, it's easier to cut. You'll want to dice it very fine. Pounding the tender inner stalk...