Culture of violence in the sphere of family relations

Is it possible to explain the phenomenon of human aggressiveness by the biological nature of a person (innate instinct), or is it an experience acquired (accumulated) in the course of an individual’s life necessary to achieve certain goals, which in some cases acts as one of the most accessible types of communication of individuals? Violence is a certain element of culture, manifested in its diversity in the form of rituals, customs, military and political tactics, following fashion, masochism/sadism in the relationship of the sexes, etc., firmly rooted in human consciousness, without which a person can no longer exist. Violence is an obligatory attribute of any society, from ancient to civilized ones.