Arguing with pleasure is a mug's game. If people say that they are having good sex, you can hardly tell them that they should give up lovemaking for sunsets. You can only tell audiences satisfied by Mission: Impossible or Men in Black that there are pleasures they are not experiencing, and then try to say what those pleasures are. 1
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Jerrold Levinson (2002) studied this question.